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Good Mental Health is a Serious Matter
Stress: How to Lower It in Your Life

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Standing up to an Eating Disorder

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You have become an obsession! Obsession; one of those words thrown around in our society most often referring to fetishes like shopping addictions or relationships gone wrong. But you are embedded in my very being and I can’t live like this anymore. The level and frequency with which my daily effort, my mental and physical energy, and all my time spent harping and wrestling with and against you, has reached a degree of fixation.
You are distressing, obnoxious, and intrusive. It started out as the most self-destructive form of idolatry but I don’t believe in you anymore. You are not my friend, my savior or my quick fix. You have evolved into my enemy because you make me ashamed, regretful, and submissive. Therefore, I don’t even recognize myself anymore.
I find myself, instead, hiding thoughts and behaviors, and thereby rationalizing my routine to myself, often because I fear lying to myself. You sick, self-destructive, manipulator, you have taken hold and now there are dueling voices in my head concerning you. Do I eat, overeat, purge, hide, lie or do I make excuses, act out a fear or isolate? You have mediated an unhealthy relationship with something that I used to be fond of. You gained my trust in the beginning and then you tried to destroy me.
You are overwhelming and proud. You cause me inner frustration and a sense of helplessness and fear. This fear continues to manifest itself in too many ways to count. Fearing that with every new second, this body of mine will once again remind me that it is a part of me, part of the holistic representation of me, and needs something from me. I don’t want to struggle with my temple, but you have caused this strain.
I want to let YOU go. You have had enough practice, polishing your conventions and tracking your success. You don’t think I can compete with you, but I can. I refuse to be bullied into a life that isn’t mine anymore. I want it back. Letting you go is my new obsession.
Seeking Therapy
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One of the wisest things you can do in a lifetime is admit when you need help. Whether this help is in the form of clinical treatment, medication, or simply assistance managing one arena in your life, the decision to seek outside aid might just be what you need. When life throws us seemingly insurmountable obstacles, for which there seems no escape, we often find ourselves at a loss. Even if we talk about it with those we trust, there often times are more resources we feel we should explore.
Tapping into our own struggles allows us to be honest with ourselves and our limitations. To have limitations is to be human but we can maximize the benefits of confronting our own in order to be better equipped to handle the hard times. Seeking therapy may be a difficult venture because we should be aware of why we are doing it in the first place. It’s often said that those unwilling to face the truth about ourselves, our addictions, our afflictions, and our need for help will not prosper from psychological, psychiatric or group treatment.
Therefore, before entering either outpatient or inpatient treatment in the form of therapy, one must be willing to accept that there is a problem to be addressed. Once this acceptance is in place, the long term chances of recovery or progress are more promising. If treatment is imposed upon a suffering individual, depending on the disorder involved, the prognosis may vary. It’s important to consult licensed professionals about what terms of treatment are most constructive before undergoing any structured or prescribed therapeutic activity.
We cannot always see clearly what will contribute to the betterment of our mental and physical health. We can only expect so much of ourselves especially if we have endured stress or trauma that is powerful enough to cloud our own perspective on how to manage our lives most healthfully and effectively. So seeking therapy or other treatment can be one of the healthiest moves we make to help us be more present for both our own lives and for those whom we care about.



